Understand what anxiety is
Anxiety is your brain’s alarm system. It becomes uncomfortable when it stays activated too long or when it responds to situations that don’t require urgent action. Naming what you’re feeling is the first step toward managing it.
Use grounding techniques
Grounding brings you back to the present moment. Try these practices when anxiety begins to rise:
- 5-4-3-2-1: identify 5 things you see, 4 things you feel, 3 sounds, 2 scents, and 1 taste.
- Square breathing: inhale for 4, hold for 4, exhale for 4, pause for 4.
- Touch an object and describe its texture, temperature, and weight.
Shift your thinking
Anxiety often comes with unhelpful mental loops. Try asking yourself:
- What evidence supports this worry?
- What evidence does not support it?
- What would I say to a friend in this situation?
Build calming daily habits
Small routines help keep anxiety lower over time. Consider:
- Regular movement, even short walks.
- Consistent sleep and wake times.
- Limiting stimulants like caffeine later in the day.
- Mindful pauses before responding to hard messages.
Reach out for support
Anxiety is easier to manage when you don’t face it alone. Talk to a trusted friend, coach, or therapist about your experience and ask for practical support.
Anxiety toolkit
- Pause and name the feeling.
- Use grounding to return to the present.
- Challenge worst-case thinking with facts.
- Practice self-care habits consistently.
- Ask for help when it feels overwhelming.